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In other words, John Derbyshire (and a lot of other grown men) may be sexually attracted to underage girls—but they don’t get to blame that fetish on biology.
Even if it were “natural,” there’s nothing innocent or harmless or healthy about older men pursuing substantially younger women. While a few young women may be attracted to much older guys (often because they falsely imagine themselves to be “so much more mature” than “other girls” their age), most are like Amber—disheartened and disgusted by the endless parade of men 10, 20, or 40 years older who harass and hit on them. And even if they seem flattered at the time, it doesn’t mean the attention from older men isn’t doing great harm.♦◊♦Lynn Phillips, a psychology professor at New York University, did a famous study of young women (mostly under legal age) who were in relationships with significantly older men.
It’s an enticement.♦◊♦Spare me the arguments from biology or evolutionary psychology, the ones that excuse predatory old guys from staring at “young firm flesh” because that flesh belongs to a woman near the peak of her fertility.
They admitted that their claims of maturity and sexual adventurousness were all a pretense.
” She’s 20 now, tall and graceful; she tells me that for the last eight years, older men have been approaching her.
“It’s not just me,” she adds, “it happens to most of my friends, almost regardless of what they look like or what they’re wearing.
In 2005, John Derbyshire, a much-admired right-wing pundit at the It is, in fact, a sad truth about human life that beyond our salad days, very few of us are interesting to look at in the buff.
Added to that sadness is the very unfair truth that a woman’s salad days are shorter than a man’s—really, in this precise context, only from about 15 to 20.